"It isn't good for a (WO)MAN to be alone. Let MY journey inspire you!
Does any part of my story sound familiar to you?
Just a few years ago, I was lonely, frustrated, and heartbroken. I kept meeting men who were interested in just one (1) thing – and it wasn’t building a life together! I knew I had a lot to offer, and I had faith in God to help bring me a God fearing man, but I discovered that I was holding onto beliefs that were magnetizing the wrong kind of guy in my life – going from one crazy to another crazy relationship to another crazy relationship. The last crazy relationship was the straw that broke the camel’s back. The guy I dated was an ex-convict, single dad, and a business owner. What a combination, I know! Before it was over, he nearly tossed me out of his moving car, and the local officials interrogated me for a crime he had been charged, one of the highest offenses in America that carried a sentence of 20 years to life. During the investigation, the police officers treated me as a suspect by ceasing my car and my home raided. After everything had occurred; I would lie down for hours wondering if my freedom would be ripped away for a crime that I did not commit….
I was devastated
afraid and felt like I did it again; I got intimately connected with someone God never intended for me to be involved with in the first place. This guy cheated on me, threaten me, and He did not have a relationship with God. It didn’t happen overnight, but I realized that sex was a temporary fix for a long-term problem for true love and intimacy. I realized I was making decisions based on how I could please a man, abandoning what I believed; along with my needs for self-acceptance, therefore, seeking the acceptance of others.
i Made a non-negotiable decision!!!
I finally got to the point when I made a non-negotiable decision to change my situation, and in the process, I discovered a proven method that will work for any woman to attract authentic love with the right man that will lead to a lasting marriage….
I was sick and tried of being sick and tired!
After being fed up with attracting bozos in my life, I decided that I would embrace the queen inside of me and boldly choose rather than wait to be chosen. When I saw my husband for the first time, we were at a speed dating event. He participated, but I did not. We had spoken before and after the speeding dating event. After that, we went on several official dates, and within two months he asked me to be his girlfriend, and within 90 days he was talking marriage.
We got engaged 12 months later and we married 6 months later!
The only think I could think of when we dated was the song by Lauryn Hill “Too Good to Be True”. I just could not believe that such an amazing man was madly in love with me (more than I was in love with him ;-)). He was more than I could ever think, ask or imagine. He is a dream come true. I thank God every day for bring this man into my life. He gives me peace; he brings joy, he gives me love, he gives me security and so much more!
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