I want to share with you the 10 Best Places to Meet a High-Quality Mate and along with that I will share some of my own powerful life lessons to help you attract and marry the love of your life.
Who you attract and allow into your life is a destiny alternating decision make no mistake about it. It can be the difference between life and death, freedom or incarceration, happiness and misery, achieving your biggest dreams versus living at your biggest nightmare. Below I share the 10 Best places to meet a high-quality god-fearing mate. Remember most importantly, it isn't your physical location as much as it is psychic location when you get there.
10.) Neighborhood. If you live in the hood, you better skip this one or go visit your friends who live in the area with good schools and expensive homes. I an't no gold digger but no body have time to be talking to a person with broke figures.
Just saying. You can meet a high-quality mate when you stop at the local gas station or store. Ladies, make the extra trip to Auto Zone to grab your new whippers and take those to your car dealership to put them on. You save some money and you never who you may run into.
9.) Airport. The more I started to travel, the more I saw fine, young single men everywhere from the Delta Sky Lounge to Southwest security line to JetBlue check-in. You may be tempted to hop in your car by yourself and take that 10-hour drive and some times that is okay but don't sky away from jumping on Jetblue and get a $49 flight and open up your options. Be careful but be cute. Put a little effort into looking good even if you have an early flight. I am not saying you need a full beat at 6AM or a $200 weave but leave the scarf and rollers at home and put on some lipstick and blush. Guys come out the sweat and throw on some jeans and a blazer, spice it up a little.
8.) Community/College Events/Games. You recall that first guy I told you about who was testing me? Well it was an EPIC fall, and I will share that in an upcoming vlog, but I met him at a homecoming game. Although he was a jerk to me, I do believe when he reached the right woman for him, a woman who demanded respect in a confident, no BS but respectful way, he got his act together. He had a Professional Engineering License; he had his own house, makeover six-figures, love God and six feet tall, no kids and the list goes on. I met him at a homecoming game my cousin invited me to.
7.) Work. Don’t make the mistake of going out with that one or two girlfriends every day. Diverse your options and be intentional with connecting and building genuine friendships at work with men and women alike. A man finding a wife, is like the coming back of Jesus Christ, your never know the day or the other, so you have to stay ready, so you don’t have to get ready. Think about Ruth. When she met Boaz, she was working in the field, and he came for her.
6.) Family/Friend Gatherings. I can’t recall meeting someone at a family gather, but I do remember inviting a good friend of mine to my birthday party than to our Christmas party and next thing I knew, her and my cousin were going out.
5.) In Ministry/On Mission Trips. If you are passionate about helping others and if you ever thought about taking mission trips. This is an excellent opportunity to build deep, meaningful relationships while giving back to society in a significant way. One does this if this is something God has already placed on your heart and something you see yourself doing at least once if not once every few years. Don’t start something you can’t finish.
4.) Gym. That beautiful good man I told you about, I met him at the gym. I met a couple of quality men at the gym. Warning, don’t go to the gym to catch or attract a man.
One reason this is the right place as it along people with like mindset and goals to connect to go and grow together. If you love working out, get out your living room and get into a co-ed gym.
3.) Online (Internet & Social Media). This is dating sites. Some of the most popular dating sites are Black Singles, Christian mingles, Elite Singles, and Match.com. Although I place this as #3, this is my favorite. This is where I met my boo thang aka my husband. Please don't get it twisted there is much weirdo online and I met three or four other guys online before I met my husband. In my Position to Be Found eCourse, I share the exact questions I asked my husband, my profile and safety tips. Social Media. This is different than dating online. This is Facebook, IG, LinkedIn, etc. This is sliding in the DM.
2.) Networking Event/Eventbrite & Meetup.com I met my husband on a dating site that was a hybrid of a meetup group. Our first meeting was at a speed dating event. With online dating, you never know what type of person you will meet even after a few phone calls that is why I recommend a group gathers for the first date.
1.) In God. You read that right. You can go to every place I listed above but if you haven’t set and keep your heart, soul, and spirit on God and the things of God, you won't be prepared to receive the partner God has for you. As soon as you meet that quality man, you will start idolizing him, and the relationship will be over before it gets started or be on a path for destruction. Remember always, seek first the kingdom of God and all of its righteousness and all other things will be added until you.
What I know to be true, God has created someone who isn't perfect but they are perfect for you. You deserve healthy happy love despite your past and all the things you been through. God said He will not withhold any good thing from you and that includes your destiny partner aka your spouse.
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